The paleo diet is simple: Eat like a cave man.
Being a yes man is also simple; Say yes to everything.
Put the two together and it’s not nearly as simple; eat healthy and say yes to everything??
Sometimes saying yes conflicts with eating healthy, and sometimes eating healthy conflicts with saying yes. Here’s how I compromise:
- When I cook for myself I usually eat lots of vegetables, fruits, meat, and occasional whole grains
- When I eat out, I’ll try whatever the waiter recommends, even if it’s not paleo (Sliced Cod in Black Bean Sauce at Judy Fu’s was the best mistake ever)
- I eat healthy snacks like almonds, carrot sticks, apples and oranges between meals at work
- I will never turn down homemade treats my coworkers offer me (fried rice, bagels, cookies, peanut butter cups, YUM!)
- I’ll work out most days after work, even though a happy hour is tempting
- I’ll go to happy hour after work with friends I haven’t seen in a while, even if it means a few beers, greasy bar food, and skipping the gym
- I’ll skip a bar night so that I’m rested for a hike the next morning
- I’ll go to the bars with people I’ve never met before instead of staying in and watching a movie
My goal is to be as healthy as possible, which I believe is a direct result of eating lots of fruits, vegetables, and lean meat and exercising frequently. Sometimes saying yes gets in the way of this goal, but it’s worth it because I might try something new that I really enjoy, meet a new friend, or maybe even learn something.
A diet, by definition, limits what you can eat and how much. A yes man is the exact opposite — it opens you up to new things you never would have tried otherwise. I ride my unicycle somewhere in the gray area between the two. Here are my guidelines:
- Eat food that loosely follows the paleo diet, as long as I still enjoy what I eat.
- Say yes most of the time, try new things and meet new people, as long as it’s not too unhealthy or uncomfortable.
This is the constant struggle I face in eating paleo and being a yes man. But it’s worth it.

